Developing your self-worth - How to ?

In today's life we all seek for motivation from here or there. One best way I believe is to Self Esteem - Self motivation.

Do you know that there are plenty of ways in which you can boost your self-esteem and change to a more positive and healthy outlook about yourself?

 Here are some tips for developing and boosting your self-worth:

1) Don't take other peoples criticism to heart, instead listen to what they are saying and learn from it.

2) Take some time out for yourself everyday, meditate, look inside yourself and realize all your good points and imagine changing your bad ones into more positive.

3) Celebrate and pride yourself on even the smallest achievements that you accomplish ( Dont turn that thing into EGO ! ).

4) Do something everyday that you enjoy, such as talking a walk in the sunshine or go out for Swimming, Diving from 3rd floor ( I recommend Ozon Swimming Pool, Goregaon ).

5) Never deprive yourself of something you enjoy, if you know you shouldn't be doing it, then do it anyway and stop chastising yourself about it.

6) Talk positively to yourself, repeat affirmations to chase away all of the negative thoughts and feelings.


It all depends how you value yourself is based on the self-esteem you have, your self-esteem shows you how much you truly value yourself. Healthy self-esteem leads to independence, happiness, flexibility, the ability to adapt easily to change, cooperation and a positive outlook on any situation.

How Do You Start With Goal Setting?

Hey Sunny Day Today ! How are you doing ?

I want to ask you a simple question here: How do you start with goal setting?

Goal setting is a really important process that helps you stay focused on your goals and take action that move you closer to them. Imagine if you set a clear goal and establish plans to work towards it, wouldn't that give you a surefire way to achieve the things you want in life?

As a start, pen down a goal or goals that you wish to achieve and rank them according to level of importance. Looking at each of the goals in accordance to importance, determine what is the time frame you wish to achieve the goal. Remember, setting a time frame is meant to give you a sense of urgency to ensure you do what it takes to achieve your goals.

After which, design a plan to achieve the goal. You'll be surprised at how you will zero in on the actions you need to take in order to achieve the goal! Do this simple exercise now and I'll check back on you in awhile with more on goal setting.

Till the time Stay Inspired and get yourself ready to change the World!

15 Minutes conversation with my old friend..

It is sunny wonderful day today. I was leaving for my office and met one of my old friend I just asked him normally " hey kaisa hai? (how are you) howz things are going on?  “Respond to that my friend slowly replied “time bahot kharab chal raha hai! (Nothing good, going through bad times) "

As I heard those words I quickly saw my watch and calculated the time, I was 15 minutes early than my regular office time. So I decided to spend those valuable 15 minutes with my so called depressed friend. I went bit near to him so we can talk ahead on the same topic. I asked “what happened buddy?  Your shoulder seems to be down? "

He replied “Nothing, again I failed in my interview just because of my poor English and those guyz are like before doing any jobs you should do some good English Speaking Classes!  “And they laughed on me and told me to left the office.

On this I replied to friend “But dude, I guess the way you have explained me the incident above in English was just so good. Only the thing which is lacking is Confidence ".

He said “Ohm common, this was very important interview for me I mean in such a big multinational company! Now as per their terms and condition I won’t be able to apply before 6 months of long period. Such a helpless I am, wish I could have control on time”

I replied him firmly and strongly with a bit heavy voice “Look my friend I am concern about your Career goals. Make One thing as crystal clear that no one has control on time, no one can get you your past moments. Just think even you have wasted your whole yesterday and today morning as well. You won’t be able to get that time back.

I saw in his eyes and continued..

Focus on what you have right now, rather than thinking what you have lost; there are many multinational companies better than this you should possibly try there. You don’t have control on time; just think that you have control on Universe Yes! If you still feeling you are weak in English or anything else which pulls you back from your life. sincerity ? punctuality? Personality ? Laziness ? whatever it may be which is still pulling  you back  to crack the interview of your life. Just face it! Practice it! practice harder and better you will get the improvements.

Imagine yourself as working in good MNC Company. Dream that you working on you desire post. You just need to imagine, dream and implementation or I rather say execute your planning’s. Try this and you find that no one would come across within you and your dreams, neither TIME. Because time is always with them, Those who believes on themselves.

After such huge motivation lecture I can only find one small thing but confident enough smile on my friends face. And I have realized that he got my point.

I saw my watch again and told my friend need to go now, and walked away. After passing 8 to 9 steps away from my friend he shouted and called me " Hey,  Thanks! Buddy  “and smiled.

And I replied shouting him back “BELIEVE!”

Live your life as you like

Hello friends I am back with one more social kind of topic, but trust me guys whatever I am writing here it’s just what I feel, what I like, what I experienced. So come back to topic, three to four years back I always used to ask myself why I am living? I mean at that time I haven’t decided what to do with my life.

It was just aimless. And at those times the most irritate questions are asked by parents and family members was “hey what do you want to be in your life? “. I mean yes there is no doubt in asking such kind of question by your parents as they have boundless expectations from you.

And I was started accepting the wisdom and I tell you guys this situation is too difficult to handle especially when you realize that your family has saw the boundless dreams through your eyes and you are the one who’s going to make it alive in reality.

So its pressure situations but you have your good friends around you to help you in that. And this is where all begin when you start asking question to yourself “why I am living? Is there any aim in my life? “, “for whom I am living?”, “how I am living? Is it right way? “. Well guys in situations like this no one going to tell you that dude do this and do that.

It is only you who has to decide your path and the goals. Just seat quite take your own time see each and every aspects. Understand how many lives are connected with you. Take every ones suggestion but performed only those which you like. Take every ones advice but follow only those which you like. Select only those field which you have interested in, set your goals which simultaneously fulfilled others goals also.

And Believe me when you started doing all this things you will reach at some other level of your life where everyone’s are happy. And you are actually ENJOYING your life in your way. So always live your life as you like. . .